Murder at the manor….and more!

 

Goodness me, I haven’t written in a few weeks. I’ve kept meaning to but life gets in the way and then you get bloody Laryngitis! But, it’s another Sunday and I’m going to write about the last few weeks of my little life.

 

First I have to start with a glorious weekend a few weeks ago where all my cousins and aunties and uncles celebrated my Auntie Karen’s 60th Birthday! We all went to a huge house in Monyash, just past Buxton. We spent the whole weekend there which was lovely, it’s quite rare for the whole bunch of us to be in the country at the same time! Usually me, Danny or Steven are off on some travel adventure! We even had the titchy nephews there which was a treat. How can two such tiny people already be my favourite people ever? I introduced little Max to some chickens he became quite fond of and I amused titchy Arthur with a helium Paw Patrol balloon! Anyway, the first afternoon was spent catching up, drinking and eating. Megan and Tom made a wonderful lasagne and so we all tucked in to that and soaked up some of the champagne and wine! That night a bunch of us went into the games room. Me and Mum taught my little cousin Katy (taller than me and stunningly beautiful) how to play pool and Molly had an intense game of connect four with my cousin Mark. It was lovely.

The next day we chilled out for a while. All the cousin generation tried to find a nearby river. Most of us didn’t end up there. We had parked way too far away (on the top of a hill where rivers aren’t usually found) and the walk was really far. We had titchy humans with us and it was really hot. Some of us decided to head back and go to a small ice cream farm instead. Mint choc chip quenched my ice cream thirst and we got to see some lovely little calves and a couple of emu. That evening was the evening of the murder mystery. We all had a character to play and so at about 6 we all emerged in character. I was a policewoman and strippogram on the side! Molly was the new young and glamorous wife of the deceased. Mum was a mystic. Megs a musician. Tom a chauffeur. Mark a french inspector. Holly the maid. Danny the grounds keeper. Karen was Lady Gardener. Steph was Lord Gardener (although I’m not sure he knew this!!). Jane was the flour dusted cook. David the general. Matt was the scientist. Steven the doctor. Ellie the tennis coach. Katy the glamorous sister of the new wife! Jack was the hipster priest. Joe was the butler. And Kinga was the house keeper. We all had parts to read and the murder was told their part in secret at the start. It was so funny to listen to everyone get into character. Marks french inspector role was the best. Although his and my aunties (the cook) love story was probably just as funny! Anyway, the story unraveled and it turns out Molly, the new wife, was the killer. I couldn’t believe I hadn’t guessed, I thought I could read my sister like a book! My guess was the musician…..

The next day was the day of the bake off. All the cousins and significant others had to bake a version of Nana’s famous chocolate cake. We’d all done this before arriving at the house. We played them out with our specific numbers so they were anonymous to the judges. These being my Mum, auntie Karen, Uncle David, Auntie Jane and obviously Nana herself! I’m pretty sure little Max was involved with the taste tests too though! The chocolate around his mouth gave him away! I really didn’t have any hope. Mine was a bit melted because of the heat of the weekend and I thought it was probably one of the worst. We all stood outside and waited for the judges to go through their process. Eventually we were all called in and the countdown started. There were a few people in joint last place. But then as the individual cakes were eliminated, I was in the final two!!! I couldn’t believe it. Anyway, I only went and bloody won! I was so chuffed, I really didn’t expect it. Maybe a slight melt of the icing helps after all?

It was a really lovely weekend and it was so nice to spend it with my gorgeous family.

After that weekend I had a few days before heading back to Cyprus. In that time I had cuddles off of my Dad and the little bunnies. I headed back to Cyprus but caught Laryngitis on the plane and was really quite poorly with it. I went out for one morning to do some field work, checking Roller nest boxes for chicks. We smashed out 16 of them and then called it a day. No roller chicks, but lots of sparrows. I just went down hill after that. I got a really sore throat and completely lost my voice. I basically didn’t get out of bed! My wonderful friend Katy brought me some ice creams to soothe my throat which was really thoughtful. After a few days Mum and Beth arrived and I soon got my voice back. The first evening I actually had to use a notepad and pen to communicate! I can nearly talk normally now, just the really high notes are still missing. So this past week I’ve basically been trying to recover. I’ve been doing some phd work on the laptop and trying to relax. On Friday night me and Beth went into Girne for some drinks. We went to Ego Bar and watched The Healers playing. They are a local reggae band who I’d actually seen before at Roots Bar (you’ll know how much I love this place from previous posts). It was a nice chilled nice just listening to good live music and enjoying the warm Cyprus air.

Anyway, I think that is most of the big events of the last few weeks. I’ll try and write more often again, I know my Nana needs her updates!

Right, that’s all for now.

xx

Nature helps

This week I’ve seen my family and enjoyed seeing friends. I got to babysit my gorgeous little nephew, Arthur. He was very excitable and cute, even if he did sneeze directly into my mouth!!!

I also saw my cousin Danny and our family friend, Andy. It was nice to just chat and chill out. I also saw my friend Jack this week. I got to meet his gorgeous little girl too. We blew lots of bubbles on the patio and enjoyed popping the huge ones!

Mum and Molly moved house this week and so it’s been a busy time moving everything and sorting it all out. It’s a lovely house though and it has a little garden full of flowers. The rabbits really like being outside there. Cuties!!

I don’t feel 100% myself at the minute and I don’t quite know what to do about it. I’ve been really trying to be mindful of nature and the things around me. It does actually help to take my mind off of things and just be in the moment. It’s nice that it’s summer because the birds are singing so much and it always sounds so lovely. The first evening at my Mums new house I got to listen to a Song thrush showing off his repetitive sequences. He was sat in a hedge and loving it! I’ve been appreciating the colours of the flowers and watching the busy bees collecting nectar from them. There are a lot of white tailed bumble bees here. I said hello to a fair few beetles and I got a little cuddle off a gorgeous toad. The best moment of my week was watching a wonderful barn owl flying over the field behind my Dads house. It was at the time of day when there is a beautiful dusk light and it emerged as if by magic. I was so entranced when I was watching it. They are heavenly creatures. I felt so privileged.

So I am trying to find happy moments in the everyday. Nature does it for me. I don’t know anything better.

X

Keeping busy

This last week I’ve been enjoying the rest of my holiday in Northern Cyprus with my Mum and sister. The weather was getting hotter by the day and the sea with it!!

We had a relaxing time because I wasn’t very well and so had to take it easy and rest. Being sick knocks it out of you and the lack of sleep! Stupid bad dreams. Maybe I should take a dream catcher with me for next time?!

Anyway, one afternoon me and Mum decided to walk along the promenade near where we sunbath. It’s quite a long stretch and we chose the hottest part of the day to go so we didn’t make it too far… Mum spotted a gorgeous cuttlefish from the bridge that crosses a sheltered bay. We watched him for ages as he was right near the surface. He was gorgeous brown colours with a beautiful spotted pattern on top. It was a real treat! There were a couple of skylarks singing high above us as we walked. And a Zitting Cisticola was chirping his song over the field nearby.

Another nice treat was going to watch the sunset at Kervanseri. We enjoyed a drink and watched the sun melt into the sea. Sunsets are magical for taking your mind off of things.

Me and my Mum went for a birding adventure one morning. We went to the Kukla wetlands so I could survey the birds there and assess the breeding status of the different species. There were lots and lots of coot nests with chicks, and a load of juveniles that had left the nests. It was an amazing morning actually, so many gorgeous species. We saw a fair few Hoopoe, a Roller, Little egret, Grey heron, Flamingo, Ferruginous duck, Barn swallows and a few Crested lark. Unfortunately the car started to break and so we had to cut the trip short. I’d wanted to carry on to the Famagusta wetlands, but I’ll have to get to those when I go back in a couple of weeks.

It was lovely to see friends again. We met our friend Janet one day for a relaxed day by the pool. And one evening I drove over to meet my friend Veysel for a couple of drinks. I hadn’t seen him in ages so it was nice to catch up with him. He was telling me all about his recent adventures.

Since being back in England the weather has been rubbish. It’s been nice seeing my family and getting cuddles off of the two bunnies though. Today is Father’s Day and so I treated my Dad and sister to a nice breakfast out. It was a lovely way to spend a Sunday morning. It’s not often it’s just us three.

Not the most exciting week, but hey ho, I enjoyed it.

Xx

What will be will be

Sunday is normal blog writing day and so I’m trying to get back into it after my Mozambique adventures. I won’t lie, this past week hasn’t been great. I won’t go into the details, but yeah, I’ve really hated it.

I had planned to come to Cyprus with my Mum and Sister for our first ever holiday with just the three of us. So I guess that was a good thing. The first few days I’ve spent trying to relax in the sunshine. Unfortunately I picked up a stomach bug and have been bed bound which is really rubbish. Today I feel slightly better so I guess I’m kicking it! I can’t afford to be sick anymore, I’m tiny enough as it is!

Being back in Cyprus is lovely because I get to hear and see all of the gorgeous birds. Hooded crows are everywhere. I can hear tinkling goldfinch all the time and chattering swallows. I think my favourite so far has been the black francolin. I’m truly in Cyprus when I hear them. As well as the birds I’ve had a snorkel and seen some lovely guiltheads. I’ve enjoyed watching the ditzy butterflies and I rescued an overturned beetle on a footpath. This morning I was woken up by huge thunderstorms. Never a bad way to wake up. Mother Nature just having a temper. I feel like a bit of a thunderstorm inside these past few days.

That’s all for now.

Xx

Adventure time!

So this week has been very hectic! Lots going on and lots to sort out!! I’m shattered now!

I’ve been helping my Dad move house for most of the time. He’s bought a house with an annex for my Grandpa to live in. It was all go on Thursday! My back was killing me by the end of the day and I lay on my bedroom floor for a while to calm down and try and work out the kinks!!!

I’ve also had a lot of time with my Mumma too. We’ve been busy walking my aunties dog and on Friday we got to babysit Arthur, my little nephew!! He is the cutest little bean!!! He doesn’t stop smiling and he napped on me for a solid two hours! Cutie!

We’ve been on a few walks this week, lots of birds singing and flowers blooming. I heard some birds squabbling and found a pied flycatcher and a coal tit having a bit of a flighty fight! Not sure who won, I was just chuffed I’d seen the flycatcher!

I’m now back in Poznan, the first leg of my journey to Mozambique. I’m currently sat in my office packing my equipment. I have two huge automatic recorders (6kg each!!) a small recorder, a microphone, gps, camera and headphones. As well as the tech, I have my binoculars, bird book and various notepads!! That’s just in my hand luggage! My big bag has my home for the next three weeks! Tent, sleeping bag, clothes and wash kit!! I’m prepped and ready! Just hope no monkeys raid my smellies when I leave my tent unsupervised!!

I smiled a lot walking to uni this morning, I was listening to the yellowhammers and wood warblers singing close by. I don’t get to hear them much at home so I stopped and took it in. They both have lovely sounds!!

So tonight I’m relaxing before a very hectic few days ahead! I’m not sure why, I’m a little apprehensive about travelling to Mozambique. I know I’ll love it once I’m there. Think I’ve gotten too used to being home!!! My family are just too bloody lovely to leave!!!

Xx

Oh what a wonderful week

Happy Easter and all that jazz! I’ve had a really lovely week at home. My Mum is dog sitting for my Auntie and so we’ve been off on lots of adventures with him. Bird song is filling the skies now which is exciting. Today I heard and saw my first skylark of the year. It was so high in the sky, I’m sure he was aiming for the sun!! I’ve been hearing a lot of goldfinch on our rambles too. I just love their bubbly sound. Another thing I’ve really enjoyed it seeing the new flowers and leaves emerging after a restful winter. I’m not the best flower or plant identifier but I’m trying to learn. So far I’ve seen Forget-me-nots, violets, bluebells, Forsythia, Common speedwell, Pilewort, Yellow archangel and many more!! There are lots of lovely beech trees with really fresh leaves too, they are so soft and so green!!

I’ve been seeing my grandpa a lot this week and helping him sort out some stuff in the house. He treated me to a chippy lunch and numerous brews!! I also got to take a load of spring onions and rhubarb from his vegetable patch!!

Another lovely thing this week has been my Turkish lessons. I’ve had two so it’s been good practice!! Demir, my teacher, said I have a great memory! I think I just need to put it into practice more! Won’t have a lesson for a while now as I head to Mozambique in a week!!

The last thing I wanted to say…. I’ve been getting really wound up with the human race. I know that sounds like a sweeping statement, but I just get so frustrated at how awful we are to the planet and the animals we share it with. My biggest issue is plastic. I won’t rant, but I just wanted to say some of the things I’ve swapped to so I can try and cut back!! For toiletries I use a bamboo toothbrush, a bar of soap not shower gel!!!, package free bar shampoo and conditioner, package free powdered deodorant (I keep it in a reusable tin), solid and package free body lotion (I use one that makes me smell like a calypso ice lolly!!). The next thing on my list is to get a metal razor that I can reuse!!! I always bring a canvas bag with me so I don’t use plastic bags. I have a reusable water bottle made from metal. These are just some things I’ve cut down on. I’m not perfect, but I’m consciously trying. Please please please change one thing you use if you can. It will make such a difference!!!

That’s it for now!! Xx

Dippers

Another nice week spent with family and friends. I had a random cold for a couple of days but I was fine after lots of brews and naps!!

I’ve mainly been doing work and practising my Turkish. I had an online lesson this week with my wonderful teacher, Demir. I really need to start writing a diary in Turkish! It would help my vocabulary so much!

This week I also went on a rainy walk with my Mum and Sister. We got soaked, but we had such a lovely time. We saw a grey heron up close which was great. We embraced the rain drops on our faces and laughed at our bright red thighs when we got home and changed!!

I finally managed to fit some bird ringing in this week. I met Jake and Ingrid early on Saturday morning and we set off to check Dipper activity. For those of you who don’t know, Dippers are the only songbird in Britain to have adapted to the aquatic lifestyle. They “dip” into fast flowing rivers to feed on all the scrumptious invertebrates!! This time of year they are pairing up and building nests! We saw a few pairs and a few individuals which was great! A great way to spot them is by there fast, fluttery flight over the ripples of the river or by their bright white chests when they perch on a stone! Either way, they are bloody gorgeous!

Last night me, my Dad, Grandpa and Aileen went for a meal in Manchester which was lovely! We had a bloody lovely tapas and a few bevvies!! Me and Dad blasted a few Queen tunes on the way home for good measure.

I’m now sat at my Nana and Grandads with my Mum. We’re making a chicken roast. Can’t think of a better way to end the week!

Xx

Little wrens

I’m posting after a gap of 2 weeks but I’m glad to be back!

Nothing too dramatic has happened. But I’ve gotten to see lots of my lovely family which is always a gorgeous thing to do! Whenever I am home I am put to use, I’ve been detangling necklaces for Nana; decluttering the loft with Grandpa; gardening for Dad and doing various odd jobs with Mum.

I’m slowly but surely getting all of my bits together for my research trip to Mozambique. Can’t believe I go so soon! I always love seeing new species of birds and experiencing new parts of the world.

Today I’m full of a stinking cold, but me, my Mum and my Sister met up for a lovely Mother’s Day breakfast and went on a walk. I spotted a sweet little wren singing his heart out on a low branch of a tree. Excitedly I pointed out the distinctive trill in the song, and explained how there were two others nearby so they were all singing to defend their territories. Molly laughed a lot, I’m such an odd ball! I always assume everybody loves birds as much as me!!!!

Anyway, not much to report, but having a cozy afternoon with my gorgeous Mumma.

Xx

Gareth and a gig.

The start of this week had me leaving the gorgeous North of Cyprus for a while. Before I left we nipped into Girne and I bought myself some scrumptious Turkish delight!

It’s been nice being home. I love all the hugs I get to have. I’ve laughed with Dad, chilled out with my Mum and giggled with my Sister. My grandparents all gave me lovely cuddles too! And of course, it’s lovely seeing the two cats, Ancient Saffy and big fat Lilly. Lily the dog was also chuffed to see me, although I think she just knows I’m a soft touch when it comes to treats! Since I arrived back, storm Gareth has been raging. Very strong winds of 60 mph and sleet and rain showers. Very different to the north Cyprus weather that gave me sunburnt cheeks!! But anyway, it’s lovely to be back.

I had a Turkish lesson this week with my amazing teacher Demir. The lessons are online so it’s very convenient. We were chatting about what I’ve been up to recently and he was helping me pronounce my vowels correctly! It’s all in the lips!

Yesterday was a great day. Me and my sister went into Manchester for a George Ezra concert. We went in early and went to a market place for food and wine. We shared a bottle of fruity red and munched on pizza. I was slightly tipsy by the end of it. Not drinking much means I’m a light weight! In the rain we made our way to the arena and got a spot on a slightly raised platform in the standing area. It was fab because it meant I could actually see the stage for once! Being titchy means I usually just have to do random jumps to catch a glimpse of the act! The support artist was Sigrid who we love. She was amazing and it was fun to dance and let go! Then George Ezra performed and he was amazing. He had a trumpet, saxophone and trombone player with him so there was a sort of carnival vibe to the night. Listening to live music makes me feel bloody amazing. I don’t think I stopped smiling.

It was a lovely way to spend my weekend. With my gorgeous little sister, just laughing and enjoying life.

Xx

I am not a fluke!

This week has been okay. Nothing majorly exciting but nothing really bad. So all in all, it’s been good.

I went on a walk with Mum to start the week off. It was a lovely sunny day so we decided it would cheer us up to get out and get our faces warm! I always love the walks with my Mum. We always chat about things, really random things. And we always point out the ideal places for fairies to live.

It snowed again this week. So obviously the roads went into chaos. I was having a small procedure at the hospital on Thursday so me and Mum had a sleepover at Nanas so we were closer to the hospital and could actually get there!! Nana was chuffed, I think Grandad was too in his own way!

I’ve just been resting for the rest of the week really. Last night my Grandpa came over to my Dads and we had a curry for an early birthday meal for me! I’m travelling back to Cyprus on my birthday so it was nice to actually do something for it.

Something has really stuck in my head this week. I was chatting with my Mum and I was really curious about how something worked. She said she wasn’t too bothered and didn’t really think about things in that ways. She said I was a thinker, I always want to understand things and figure out how they work. It gave me a weird confidence boost. I’ve always thought, ever since getting into my first uni, that it was a fluke! Everything was a fluke and I shouldn’t be where I am now… but actually, mum saying this made me think “do you know what, I am curious, I do wonder, I am in the right place!”. Something just clicked and it was really nice. I’m quite quick to underestimate myself but I need to try and stop. Everyone is in the place they should be. Nothing is a fluke!!

That’s all for now.

Xx